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1. What rate am I really receiving?

Never compare a locked offer with an unlocked offer as though they were identical. Ask for both choices in writing.

2. What will the monthly payment actually include?

Ask the lender to separate principal, interest, mortgage insurance, property taxes, homeowners insurance, and escrow. The principal-and-interest figure is usually only one part of the monthly housing payment.

Use the True Monthly Home Cost calculator to consider recurring costs that may not appear in the lender’s quoted payment.

3. How much cash will I need?

Ask for the estimated cash to close and request the calculation behind it. Cash to close may include the down payment and closing costs, reduced by deposits already paid, seller credits, lender credits, and other adjustments.

Compare this figure with the Cash to Close calculator, but treat the lender’s official disclosure as the transaction-specific source.

4. What loan am I actually comparing?

Confirm the loan type, term, amount, purpose, and product. Ask whether the rate is fixed or adjustable and, if adjustable, when the rate can change and what limits apply.

• Is this conventional, FHA, VA, USDA, or another loan?
• Is the term 15, 20, 30 years, or another period?
• Is there a prepayment penalty?
• Is there a balloon payment?
• Can someone assume the loan if the home is sold?
• What happens if the rate lock expires?

5. How do mortgage insurance and escrow work?

Ask whether mortgage insurance is required, how the premium is calculated, when it may end, and who determines whether it ends. Ask which taxes and insurance are escrowed and which you will pay directly.

Escrow can change the amount sent to the servicer when taxes or insurance change. It does not change the principal-and-interest obligation in the loan note.

6. Which fees can I shop for?

Ask which settlement services you may shop for and request the lender’s written provider list. Compare origination charges, services you cannot shop for, services you can shop for, taxes, prepaids, and the initial escrow deposit.

If a charge changes later, ask which fee-tolerance category applies and what event caused the change.

7. What will I receive before closing?

Ask when you will receive the Closing Disclosure and how you should compare it with the Loan Estimate. You generally must receive the Closing Disclosure at least three business days before consummation. Check the loan amount, rate, payment, closing costs, cash to close, credits, and services.

How to judge the lender’s answers

A trustworthy lender should be willing to identify assumptions, explain trade-offs, provide documents, and answer questions without rushing you. Be cautious when a lender focuses only on the lowest rate while avoiding points, credits, cash to close, escrow, or costs outside the payment.

• Get important explanations in writing.
• Compare the same loan with other lenders.
• Do not rely on rate alone.
• Ask what is excluded from the payment.
• Confirm the cash requirement early.
• Review the Closing Disclosure before signing.

Final takeaway

The best lender conversation is not “What is your lowest rate?” It is “Show me the complete cost, explain every assumption, and help me compare the same loan fairly.”